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Dating was very easy, all the guys liked me and still do, they would all want to stay until I would say, “I am HIV positive.” a second later they are gone and I would never hear from them again.. Dating became very hard. To tell or not to tell? A young beautiful woman like me? and now no one negative and one who ticks all the boxes wants me.. so now forget about the hot sexy bars and sporting events to meet a handsome hello Mr good looking guy, its the internet now were its like talking to a box until you see what’s inside! Surprise! So I now Buy a nice bottle of wine and hit the search engines, because I decided I will have to tell, no two ways about it… but it doesn’t get any easier!, what if I get infected with another HIV strain or something else? Superinfection..? What to do what to do..? Condoms, they are not fun, otherwise I wouldn’t be here.

Now if I start dating, I would have to use them or else I will get infected again and complicate things for myself. would it be worth the risk? But are there men who want to use condoms and are already infected?, the last guy I met online, didn’t and he even wanted anal sex. I ran so fast when he mentioned a three some too.. I really don’t want to get infected again so what should I do, other than date a negative guy, and not tell or tell him then risk losing him , or remain single for life. Single for life well thats scary. Both ways are as bad as each other. Who has a heart to give someone else an STD especially HIV? well my ex boyfriend has, but I forgave him. and why should I be single for life because of a damn condom? I ain’t getting back with my ex, though we should have the same strain unless he has caught on something else. Anyway will not put up with bad rubbish for life. They said to me when I was growing up If he will not treat you good then put on your boots and start walking, that’s what boots are made for because he will not treat you any better. So I make sure I keep a pair with me always. I have prayed but the man up there is having some long coffee to think about getting back to me. But as a christian catholic girl, I will wait for Him to finish his coffee. They say good things come to those who wait!, well we will see about that. In the mean time, Ladies, let us think well before we date, think about the risks that lie in casual dating on sites like this, or having multiple boyfriends and not using protection with men on these dating sites. Before you know it you will have had a piece of every guy on the site, who has been with every other girl on the same site! After careful meditation and listening to what other people had to say, I have given myself this advice, that I think you should also consider. I have decided that…

If I meet a guy on this site or any other dating site such as this, it will not be because I have no choice and what ever comes along will do, because I am in a desperate situation, I.E “I want sex so bad, I have not had it in ages” or “He is the only hot guy I have seen on dating sites like this and I will not let him go because it does not get any better even though he doesn’t tick all the boxes” or “He usually is not my type, but hey, my choice is very limited so I will just put up with it!” Yes our choice Ladies is very limited unfortunately even if we decide to tell because how many negative guys can actually put up with positive women? and just think, he could get infected because of you!. I have decided I will not settle for less. I will still keep the standards I set out in the beginning. whether a positive or negative guy I will tell. If he is negative, I will first date him and resist anything sexual. It will be a hard thing to do but really it doesn’t have to be. I will simply meet him in public places for dates and not allow him to my place or me to his place until he full knows my status and the risks about it. If he refuses and insists on meeting at his place or my place before I have told him my status then I will tell him otherwise, that He is not my kinda guy. No man will push me into anything with or without a ring! And avoid being in alone quiet places with him and when things eventually fire up and he ticks most of the boxes, I will tell him. If he decides to leave then fine, go. I can understand and anyway he is not man enough to put up with a fearfully and wonderfully made woman like me. Scaredy cat!, doesn’t know anything about STDs anyway, Its a new age has he not heard of steriodent couples? Love is not just about sex!. If he ticks all the boxes and he is positive and is not willing to play it safe, then I am confident to tell him, he is not the one, because my one will want to play safe. However I will let him in on the risks of unsafe sex for people like us. if he is positive and is willing to still play it safe whilst we still doing the dating thing then yes. I will be a lucky girl. I will promise him after he marries me we can bury the condom, even buy a coffin for it! because when we married, I will give him all my trust. then again can I trust a man married or not in this day and age?… Obviously no, but after marriage it will be definitely be worth the risk! Good luck and be safe still …